I, Sophia Wisdom, am looking for a partner.

Life situation

I am a bisexual 25 year old transgender woman-adjacent person.

I live alone in the mission district of San Francisco.

I am not currently working^more

I am monogamous.

I want kids but am willing to compromise on this if it's not possible for us to have kids.

Who am I

I am a silly person. I care deeply about excellence. I care deeply about understanding. I care deeply about computers. I am deeply ADHD. I care about frugality. I don't really love working and purchases are paid for with my time. I'm intellectually attracted to being a "scavenger" and making better use of spare resources -- spare computing, spare electricity, spare housing.

Things I care about

Laughter; Joy
Excellence, doing well
Understanding, saying true things

I care about being good at things. I want you to be really good at things. I want to watch and admire you be good at things.

Things I want out of a relationship

I want love. I want companionship. I want to build a life with you.

I want kids. I've been watching my friend's now-two-year-old as he's grown up. He's very cute.

I'm looking for something monogamous, or monagam-ish. I love my friends. I like to be able to snuggle them. I would be sad if I was in a relationship where this was not possible.

I'm not really huge on sex at the moment. This is plausibly fixable with the right partner. I'm vaguely switchy when I have done sex stuff.

Traits I care about

Kind
Intelligent
Interesting/surprising/creative
Appreciation for the profound

What my friends say about me

Typedfemale: "sophia wisdom is one of my favorite people to talk to. she has a broad range of interests, is great at explaining things and a good listener. she loves trying new things and experiences. anyone would be lucky to have her as a partner."

Aspen Smith: "holy shit sophia"

"you have literally one of the best artistic and aesthetic sensibilities of anyone i know"

"https://girl.surgery/website_vibes/ is one of the most compelling works of art I've seen in ages"

Working

I've previously worked as a programmer at a bunch of different places. I had a good idea a few months ago and have been working on selling it. So far this has been pretty successful and it's looking like I'm not going to have to work for a while (probably 3-5 years). I am financially

In the mean time I've been figuring out what to do with my time. I'm working on a GPU programming class and have made some progress with pedagogy. I'm planning to drop in on two classes at UC Berkeley this semester. Other Things I Want To Do:

Dance class
Play more sports: Tennis, {Soft,Base}ball, ping pong?
Read and understand more
Possibly work on programming projects
Spend time with you
Maybe travel? I'm pretty traveled-out

Dealbreakers

Some things about me that might be Dealbreakers for you

I can be very avoidant. This has been catastrophic before in my career and personal life.
I often have trouble keeping up with housework. My room is often very messy for example.
I can be very stubborn if I don't agree with you. For example Typed has tried to Fix me many times but has mostly not succeeded.

Emotions

Sometimes I get powerful emotions. Power roiling through me. I've written about this on my main website . I am likely mildly bipolar -- hypomania for a while with more reclusive periods.

Desiderata

Appearance

I'm 6'3 and weigh ~160lbs. You can find photos of me on my main page

Drugs

I used to do LSD fairly often. I don't nearly as much now. I don't smoke and I drink maybe once a month. I'm in general not very into drugs at the moment but I'm down to try if you're into them.

Twitter

I spend a lot of time on twitter and a lot of my social scene is from there.

Relationship references

I've had two partners in the past, both of whom I still talk to. The last one is probably willing to talk to you if you want a reference; her name is Vivien Nepenthe.